It
has been a while since I wrote a blog, especially one about friends. Its known
for the few people who read this blog that I write stories when I’m in a good
mood, and I write blogs when I’m so mad and wanna rant and vent about
something, mostly something very annoying that talking to a dear friend or
family won’t help making it less annoying, so the only way to scream in public
and maybe deliver an indirect massage is through this… Feel free not to read, or
to read, it’s just a blog that not so many people read so won’t be addressing
the world, simply no one gives a shit.
I
really appreciate the existence of a good friend in my life, they are like a
second family and sometimes you ask your friends for help before your family…
so when you are hurt from one of those you considered close, it really hurts
like a fucking bitch! And I don’t have time for drama or fights or any of the
high-school free gimme drama time, like dear *Murtaugh said “I’m too old for
this shit!” so here comes the blog’s benefits.
So,
today we are going to go through 4/5 types of friends I’ve lost or going to
lose, sounds sad I know but well, you can’t have a forced friendship and you
can’t be friends with people you really don’t like and hurt you, unless you are
an angel who forgets or a hypocrite who can deal with people you whom you hate
and able to lie in their faces… I’m no angel and I can’t do this second thing,
because simply when you lose something that wasn’t meant, you get something or
someone better.
So,
let’s just agree that when you lose a friend doesn’t mean any of you are bad
persons or whores or whatever the name, you are just not good with each other,
it didn’t work or one of you is simply a whore :P
So,
Type
(1): Annoying & Clingy:
Those
you meet once and suddenly they are everywhere, Facebook, they have your phone
number, email, want to hangout and meet your family and friends, and suddenly
“we are best friends right?” Uh, hell no, we are not, really we are not, we
have nothing in common except for the doomed day we met, at work or a wedding
or whatever… Then the only thing you tell yourself is to RUN!!!
Type
(2): Stalker & boring:
That
type is mix between 1 & 2, and those are mostly people you meet at work or
school, the person who has no life of any sort, and suddenly they are doing
everything you do. Wear clothes similar to yours, listen to the same music and
scary enough they have a nickname for you, and suddenly they just talk like
you, (even though they have commented on that in a negative way) it takes a few
months to see another fake copy or yourself… From those, again, I RUN! But I do
it smoothly, and thank God, only one person I met like that…
Part
of type two is also the Gloomy one, The Victim (محبي النكد والدراما),
they are boring and they just love whining all the time with no intention of
changing, they want the world to change because they are not ready for it, but
hell no they change, they are perfect and always victims, knowing such a type
of people SUCKS the life out of you.. They always want you and ask for the
help, but when you look around they are gone… Well, if you are gone in critical
times, you can go forever. Adious bitch!
The next ones are not totally lost, but its hanging on
a thread, I mean being annoyed of a friend is different than being ready to
lose that friend. Mistakes are different than disrespect and ignorance. And for
those I shout and they are the reason I’m writing this, just one last chance…
Careful bitch, you are in a bad position.
Type (3): Reckless careless (منفض)
always casual person:
Now, that is very dangerous, I mean it’s cool to be
casual with your friends, but it’s not cool to just forget they excite. Being
casual gives space to you and your friends to be free around you and to go on
with their lives and to share whenever they want, it’s a good thing to be cool
and casual but sometimes it gets a bit loose, and then problem happens.
Must talk about type 4 because they join in a very
critical area…
Type (4): Sneaky and turns into a bitch:
Its type (3) with a twist when it gets out of hand,
meaning by examples:
Example: Going on a trip without telling your friends –
who meant to join is reckless and stupid don’t get me wrong, BUT,
knowing that one of your (so called) best friends almost got married or getting
married (you knew through social media or a stranger) is bitchy! That is a dick move.
See, big difference,
When you are reckless its usually coz you are just
(menafad) don’t care or don’t think through your actions, but I change my
birthday party dates & make time as for you as demanded, and then I find
out about your stuff from strangers or social fucking media, fuck privacy, don’t
pull this off, I invented it, privacy my ass, private people don’t share shit!
(You know who you are) then that is IT!
Have the guts to say so, have the guts to stop a
friendship, don’t just fuck it and screw around, it hurts people and no second
chances, friendships are like thing glass, once it cracks, it breaks, it never
mends. Even with years if we ever became friends again, it’s never the same.
Only regret is, I’m sorry letting type (4) in my life,
sorry for thinking you are important and you are really nothing, nothing will
make it right, and if I can rewind time I would really delete you earlier than
that.
Type (3), please don’t turn into (4), it fucking hurts!
On that note we add the vows again with an extra vow
this time because none of us has the time to fight and like a friend of mine
commented on the last blog.
- Till politics do us apart.
- Till being a jerk/bitch do us apart.
- Till meeting new-friends or getting in a
relationship (whipped) do us apart.
- Till the nothingness do us apart. (Back off and stay
there in the shadows, remember; no fights they ain’t worth it…)
Not sure if that will make a difference, I lost
nothing anyway, it’s not as funny as the one before and maybe just bitter, for
those I lost, I regret nothing because it wasn’t really working.
And for those I’m losing or trying not to lose: I hope
this makes a difference and if it didn’t & we are gone, it’s better because
it will make more room for those who actually matter.
Don’t forget the vows when you meet a new better friend…
Asya,
Dec 11th 2014
*Wink
* Murtaugh is a character
in the Lethal Weapon movie series ;)
